7 Tips To Being Popular With Those Around You

1)Use their name. This creates and builds a connection and shows the other person that they are important to you because you know their name.

2)Smile. Smiling is attractive and it usually makes someone smile back.  We all know someone who is grumpy and they aren’t wonderful to be around. It is the smilers that are popular with others.

3)Be open.  Being open with others and sharing things from our life helps to create rapport and people are more likely to share things with you adding to the bond between you both.

4)Ask questions.  People love talking about themselves, if you ask questions they will like you, because you are encouraging them to talk about themselves.

5)Be empathetic.  This is one step more than being sympathetic, It means you feel what the other person feels and will create a bond between you both.

6)Be funny.  Some people are naturally funny.  It this is you use this gift. People love to laugh, it’s even better to make yourself the butt of the jokes rather than others.

7)Be a listening ear.  Often when we are conversing with someone rather than listening we are planning what we are going to say next.  When someone is talking actually listen to what they are saying.  When you can recall something someone has said a few days later you will be popular in deed.

So there you go 7 tips to becoming popular.  Try them out tomorrow at work, or when you are out with your friends.  I promise your popularity will rise,

Have a great day,

Keith.

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